Soft, slow, sensual lovemaking is wonderful. And it has its place in the bedroom. But sometimes, women just want it to be rough, wild, and intense. In fact, studies even show that the vast majority of women actually love rough sex. Because it’s connected to feeling overwhelmingly wanted by the man you want. Which is totally arousing. 

And today, I will show you 10 of the best rough sex moves that women secretly crave in the bedroom — but might not tell you outright. With these amazing moves in your arsenal, you will be ready to rock any woman’s world in bed and keep her coming back for more.

Here are the 10 rough sex moves that women secretly crave in bed:

Don’t wait for her to undo her bra herself, lift her shirt or pull down her jeans. Take control. You’re the one in charge. You’re the one who should be tearing off her clothes, like you can’t wait another second to ravage her body. That kind of passion and intensity will set the tone for what’s to come. And we love it. 

Don’t place her down tenderly, like she’s a piece of glass you’re worried about shattering. Gently shove her onto the blankets and then climb on top of her to do what you want to do. Once again, it shows her that you can’t wait to enjoy her body. That you find her irresistible.

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Women (especially feminine women) love feeling contained during sex since it allows her to feel secure, and she can freely express her sexuality with you. The easiest way to do this is to take her wrists, and hold them together over her head while you’re on top of her. 

You can do this while making out, or during penetration. You can also hug her tight, and keep her “secured” that way. The important thing is that she feels restrained, and in a way, under your control. And that feeling of surrendering control is a big turn on for a lot of women. 

This is simple. Kiss her like you mean it. Thrust your tongue inside of her mouth and moan like you’ve just tasted the best thing in your life. And don’t just focus on her lips. Push her head to the side so you can suck and nibble on her neck.

Women go crazy for that. The neck is a super sensitive area. In fact, if she’s okay with it, you can even bite and leave marks.

This works best if you’re doing it Doggy style, but you can make it work from pretty much any position. And trust me, she’ll absolutely love it. When you pull your woman’s hair, especially the area at the back near the neck it sends shivers down their spine.

So when having sex, it adds to the sensation and pleasure. Just remember to grab her hair close to the scalp. Don’t yank the ends, because that’s just painful.

This is simple. Grab her waist while you’re thrusting and hold her as tightly as you can. If you leave bruises, that’s okay — as long as she says it’s okay.

Her shirt will cover up the spot, and she can continue to act innocent around her family and friends.

When choking her, you do not want to squeeze her windpipe. And you don’t want to grab her carotid arteries on the side of her neck too hard to where she passes out.

You want to choke her just right… with just enough pressure that she feels totally under your control in bed without getting hurt.

So start a little bit lighter than you might think, and focus on lightly pressing against her carotid arteries aka the sides of her neck. If she wants you to choke her harder, she’ll tell you.

Another way to do this is to grab her on the back of the neck. Since that’s muscle, you can be a little rougher, and she’ll love it since it’ll still feel like you’re in control.

Spanking a girl is the easiest way to get into rough play, since you’re not going to hurt her by slapping her on the butt. And honestly, it’s pretty rare to find a woman who doesn’t like it after she’s tried it.

Start firmly, and with an open palm. To judge whether she likes it, you can ask, “Is that hard enough for you?” or “Want it harder?” That allows you to stay in control and keep her feeling good without causing any serious pain. 

I’ve mentioned this… If you want your girl to get going in excitement and ecstasy, then you must be vocal and talk dirty. 

It doesn’t matter if your girl isn’t a dirty talker, simply telling her how hot or beautiful she looks will get her craving for more of you. Similarly, saying out loud what you want to do to her or how much she turns you on can drive a woman wild.

Dirty talking is a powerful tool to have in the bedroom. And it can spice up any sexual interaction. Whether it’s a quickie before work or a more intense, long-lasting session. Moving on…

Thrusting very hard and fast and mixing it with the points I mentioned previously will send her off the edge. But you wanna save this for last. You gotta warm her up first.

Consider this an endgame. And deploy it when you know she’s turned on to the brim. Where she’s begging for it. This is when you let out your animalistic side. And give her all you got with nothing held back.

And that concludes our list of 10 rough sex moves that women secretly crave in bed.

If you wanna go deeper into this topic of pleasuring a woman and giving her the wildest and craziest experiences in the bedroom… You should see the masterclass I did on this topic with certified sex therapist Helena Nista.

This masterclass will show you EXACTLY how to satisfy your date, girlfriend, or wife so that she literally begs you for more. The tactics revealed in this 2-hour class will allow you to read a woman’s body like a book, uncover her deepest desires, and give her powerful, toe-curling orgasms on command. 

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, married, or just met someone new, Helena’s sex tactics will guarantee that you have wild, passionate adventures in the bedroom… that practically force women to come back for more.

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10 Rough Sex Moves Women Secretly Crave In Bed

As we look ahead to the year 2024, it's clear that technology will continue to shape and transform our world in profound ways. From artificial intelligence and robotics to virtual and augmented reality, the future of tech promises to be both exciting and challenging. Here are some predictions for what we can expect to see in the world of tech in the coming years.

Artificial intelligence is already transforming the way we live and work, but by 2024, it will be even more ubiquitous. AI-powered chatbots will become more intelligent and capable, and we'll see more companies using AI to automate their customer service and other business processes. Additionally, AI will be used more frequently in healthcare to help diagnose and treat diseases, and in transportation to improve safety and efficiency.

By 2024, the smart home will be even more common than it is today. With the proliferation of connected devices, homeowners will be able to control everything from their thermostat to their refrigerator with their smartphone or voice commands. We'll also see more homes with integrated home security systems that use AI to detect and respond to potential threats.

Virtual and Augmented Reality Will Become Mainstream

Virtual and augmented reality have been around for a while, but by 2024, they'll become more mainstream. We'll see more VR and AR applications in education, healthcare, and entertainment, and these technologies will continue to evolve and improve. For example, we might see virtual reality used in physical therapy to help patients regain mobility, or augmented reality used in retail to help customers visualize products before they buy.

The rollout of 5G networks will accelerate in the coming years, and by 2024, it will enable new technologies that we can only imagine today. We'll see more autonomous vehicles on the road, as 5G enables faster and more reliable communication between cars and infrastructure. Additionally, 5G will enable new applications for virtual and augmented reality, as well as new technologies in healthcare and other industries.

Cybersecurity Will Become More Important Than Ever

As technology becomes more ubiquitous, cybersecurity will become even more important. By 2024, we'll see more companies investing in cybersecurity to protect their networks and data, and we'll see more government regulations designed to protect consumers. Additionally, we'll see more individuals taking steps to protect their online identities and personal information.

These are just a few of the many predictions for the future of tech in 2024. While we can't know for sure what the future holds, it's clear that technology will continue to shape and transform our world in profound ways. As these technologies evolve, it will be important for individuals, businesses, and governments to adapt and stay ahead of the curve.

The Future of Tech: Predictions for 2024

A man touching a woman’s butt is nothing new.

This kind of groping is a problem in many countries. In certain places, like Latin America, they have made 

 because women feel so unsafe on a crowded metro with men.

Yet segregating train cars by gender won’t solve the issue. Those butts are not the problem. The more significant issue is the lack of societal pressures stopping men from behaving this way.

The man who grabbed my butt didn’t think twice about it.

I wasn’t in public, exactly. I was in the back room at my job, where they kept the lockers and aprons for the staff. It was there, in this semi-private space, that I found myself alone with a male coworker.

“Hey, can you turn around for a second?”

He sounded so blasé, I was sure I had something on my pants. The dangers of public transportation are many and sometimes unpleasant, so I expected that perhaps a stray hair or piece of gum had followed me from the bus to the restaurant.

But even if I hadn’t taken the bus, my next thought probably would have been that my coworker had found a stain on his white shirt and had to change, as was the policy, and thus desired some privacy. In my naiveté, I didn’t assume he would do anything out of the ordinary. So I turned around.

That’s when I felt a pair of hands on my rear, each palm insistently cupping one of my ass cheeks.

I’m ashamed to say I froze. I was a 20-year-old who had never experienced inappropriate touching before. I didn’t know how to respond. My first reaction was to think that maybe I was imagining it.

But no, this was no bad dream or mistake. Those hands kneaded and squeezed my ass for what felt like an hour, though I’m sure it was only a few seconds.

“Beautiful,” he whispered, far too close to my ear for comfort. “Where did you get an ass like this?”

I was numb but automatically responded, “Um…from my…mom.”

And then I ran, because I was scared, and didn’t know what to do.

Part of me wanted to believe it was harmless. An even more messed up part of my brain argued that it was a compliment since he found me attractive. Was this how other adults behaved when they were flirting?

The desire to forget it had happened replaced all my thoughts. I knew the server’s actions were wrong. But my main concern was to not get fired, and I had no proof that he’d touched me.

When push came to shove, I wasn’t sure anyone would believe me, and I didn’t want to be labeled a problem by the management.

I could avoid being in the same room with the abuser but couldn’t easily find a new job.

So, I kept quiet and limited my contact with him to brisk communication if work required me to do so. For three months, this was how things were. I ignored the slightly sick feeling I had in my stomach during that time.

However, later, I would be aware that residual fear remained. I didn’t feel safe anymore with any of my male coworkers. Even though they were all seemingly lovely men, I feared they could turn at any moment and view me as a target.

Things took a turn for the better three months later. While working the morning shift with two other female coworkers, I saw him arrive too early for lunch. A manager came out immediately and told him to follow her into the office.

Once he had passed our table, the woman across from me whispered, “That guy’s a creep. I hope he gets fired. He has been harassing a bunch of the waitresses.”

To my great delight, he was fired. But the feeling of safety I’d had before never fully returned. Guilt also flooded me. I hadn’t been as courageous as my coworkers. Was I a part of the problem?

Were all of us that he had harassed kept quiet about the problem? If so, were we equal or more to blame than the person committing the crime in the first place? These are the kind of disturbing thoughts that you can have when you don’t realize how common your predicament and actions are.

From what I gathered later, he’d been a creep to several other women, who slowly realized they were not the only ones. That knowledge that they were not alone gave them the strength to go to the bosses, knowing they were more likely to be believed because of their numbers, which is more than a little messed up when you think about it.

Abusers know this, so they often tell their victims to keep things a secret while threatening their safety. Their actions thrive when isolating those they wish to keep quiet.

This experience was not the last time a man grabbed me. Not that I’m alone. So many women have experienced the same at work, on the streets, in the metro, in schools, or anywhere. If you ask around, you’ll hear stories from women who’ve been harassed. If you pay attention, you’ll see men who make women uncomfortable in public.

But our voices are getting more robust, and men are starting to understand the consequences of treating women like objects.

In December 2019, a runner was accused of 

 while reporting live during a race in Georgia.

How could she not? You could see that look on her face, the one where it takes a moment to realize that someone else sees you as a thing, that brought fury to so many because it reminded them of all the times they had been groped with no camera around to catch their perpetrators.

The man’s hollow excuses to get out of the responsibility were infuriating, as were those who defended his actions by saying, 

claiming to have been caught up in the moment

. He didn't’ see why it was such a big deal. However the age of casual sexism which would have supported him 50 years ago, was over. It was as if the nation said, “Yes, it was a big deal.”

It’s probably the same reason there was such glee over the video of a waitress body-slamming a patron who decided he could casually grab her ass in her place of work. Fifty percent of the comments said something to the effect of, “I wish I would have done that when someone grabbed me.”

We want our bodies to be ours in public spaces.

Can we read on the subway while wearing a skirt without the risk of someone trying to snap a photo of our va*gina just because they can? Is it possible to go for a run without someone making a lewd remark if our breasts jiggle a bit?

And why are we still telling women that they should smile?

It’s time to be clear that we are not things for anyone’s pleasure. The culture is changing.

Social media and access to a large audience are instrumental in holding people who misbehave accountable, and those who might do the same realize no one will tolerate their actions.

Maybe next time someone sees a man trying to put a phone under a woman’s skirt, they’ll say something. Or if some dude is rubbing his crotch against a girl on a crowded subway, she won’t be too embarrassed to cause a scene.

She should know others will aid her and help keep the pervert separated from her and other potential victims. Anyone who sees a man grab a woman’s ass should call them out or support the woman if she demands an apology.

A slap on the butt is not a compliment. A random groping does not make a woman feel sexy. No one deserves a pinch on a thigh because a skirt exposed it.

These are actions certain men take to demonstrate their power in a world that has allowed them to get away with this behavior for too long.

All I know is that next time a man grabs my butt, I hope I won’t be silent. Next time someone else sees a man assaulting a woman, I hope they won’t be silent either.

I Always Thought I Was a Fighter Until the Day a Coworker Grabbed My Butt

Imagine this: It’s crunch time, and you’ve got that big project looming over your head like a dark cloud. You take a seat at your desk, crack your knuckles, and tell yourself, “I’m diving in.”

But instead, you plunge into a whirlpool of distractions — endless scrolling, pesky notifications, and yes, even that irresistible urge to reorganize your sock drawer.

If you’re tired of this ceaseless cycle and craving a laser-like focus that lets you smash through any task, you’re in luck.

I’ve cooked up something just for you: a proven Focus Formula that flipped the script for me, and it can do the same for you.

Buckle up, because you’re about to discover how to unlock a superpower we all wish we had — the power of deep, unshakable focus.

The Lie We Tell Ourselves; “I’m Great at Multitasking”
Picture this — you’re at your desk juggling emails, a report that’s due in a few hours, and a Zoom meeting that’s about to start.

You’re bouncing between tasks like a pinball, confident that you’re killing it on the multitasking front.

Before you pat yourself on the back, let’s burst that bubble; multitasking is the grand illusion of productivity.

How many times have we all bragged about our ability to handle multiple tasks, only to find out we haven’t done any of them particularly well?

We’ve been conditioned to think that doing more things at once equals success. News flash — it doesn’t.

Research is clear on this. When we multitask, we’re not doing several things at once; we’re rapidly switching between tasks. And each time we switch, there’s a cognitive cost.

It’s like you’re a computer with too many tabs open, and we all know what happens then — yep, everything slows down.

Think about it. Have you ever been so engrossed in writing an email that you completely missed the point of a meeting you were simultaneously attending?

Or have you ever been texting while watching a movie and realized you’ve missed key plot points? These are classic examples of multitasking gone awry.

It’s high time to abandon this multitasking myth. Your brain isn’t a circus act; it’s not built to juggle multiple acts simultaneously.

What it craves — and what it excels at — is deep, singular focus.

So, the first cornerstone of the Focus Formula is simple yet transformative: quit the juggling act and give your brain the undivided attention that each task deserves.

This is your first step towards becoming a focus ninja.

The Focus Formula — Break, Boundaries, Breathe
Alright, so you’ve ditched the whole “I’m the King or Queen of Multitasking” facade. Good for you!

Now comes the juicy part — unveiling the three B’s of the Focus Formula that will turn you into a focus maestro: Break, Boundaries, and Breathe.

Yes, it sounds like the title of a self-help book, but stick with me because each component is a game-changer.

Break
Have you ever found yourself staring at your computer screen for hours, thinking you’re the epitome of productivity, only to realize you’ve actually accomplished very little?

It’s time to dial it back and give your brain the gift of breaks. Remember, even superheroes need rest!

Let’s dive into the Pomodoro Technique — a time management hack that suggests working in short, intense bursts, followed by brief breaks.

Imagine you’re a sprinter; you wouldn’t go full tilt for an entire marathon distance, would you? You’d burn out.

So why do we think our brains are any different?

When you give yourself permission to take a short break after a 25-minute work sprint, you’re essentially telling your brain, “Hey, you’ve done well. Take a breather!”

Those few minutes of downtime allow your brain to reset and come back stronger, ready to tackle the next round.

It’s like giving your mind a shot of espresso but without the caffeine jitters.

Boundaries
We live in a world that’s connected 24/7, but that doesn’t mean your focus should suffer the consequences.

How many brilliant ideas have you lost because your phone buzzed with an “urgent” meme from a friend?

How many times have you had to reread a paragraph because someone decided to have a full-blown discussion next to your desk?

It’s time to erect some walls — no, not literal ones, but boundaries that protect your focus as if it’s a sacred treasure.

Turn off those pesky notifications, put on some noise-canceling headphones, or find a quiet corner where you won’t be interrupted.

Make it known that when you’re in your focus zone, it’s like stepping into a VIP lounge — no unnecessary disturbances allowed.

Breathe
This may seem like the simplest of the three but don’t underestimate its power. Breathing is not just a biological necessity; it’s a tool you can use to anchor your mind.

Think of it as a mini-vacation for your brain — a few moments of inhale-exhale can work wonders.

When you focus on your breath, you pull yourself back from the chaos and noise. It’s a mini-meditation that shifts your brain from a state of scattered thoughts to a state of focus.

Next time you’re about to dive into a task, take a moment to take five deep breaths. This not only calms you down but also preps your brain to dive deep into the task at hand.

So, there you have it — Break, Boundaries, Breathe. These aren’t just random words; they’re the pillars that will uphold your newfound sanctuary of focus.

And once you’ve established this sanctuary, you’ll find that not only do tasks become easier, but your life starts to change.

You’re no longer constantly stressed, overwhelmed, or running on fumes.

You’ve created a streamlined path to not just better work, but a better you.

The Payoff
So, you’ve mastered the art of taking breaks, set up rock-solid boundaries, and learned the magical power of breathing.

But what’s the endgame here? Why go through all the trouble?

Picture this; A life where your work doesn’t chase you in your dreams, where deadlines feel like a breeze, and where you get to enjoy the real treasures of life — be it family time, a hobby, or simply binging your favorite series guilt-free.

That’s not a fairytale; that’s the incredible payoff of adopting the Focus Formula.

But wait, I’ve saved the best for last. Let me introduce you to my secret weapon; — Sunsama. I personally use Sunsama for both my personal and professional life.

What sets it apart for me is how it integrates my calendar, to-do list, and priorities in one place. It’s not a magic bullet, but it’s a tool that aligns perfectly with the ethos of the Focus Formula.

And because I’ve found it useful, I want to extend an offer for you to try Sunsama for free.

It’s not a life-changing miracle; it’s just a practical tool that could make your journey to better focus a bit easier.

In the end, mastering focus brings you closer to a life that’s not about endlessly chasing tasks but actually enjoying moments — both big and small.

It’s about moving from a frantic “must-do-everything” state to a calm “I’ve got this” mindset. So, are you ready to make the shift?

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How I Tricked My Brain to Enter Deep Focus (The Focus Formula)

Achieving a model body can seem like a daunting task, but with the right workouts and dedication, it is definitely achievable. Here are five easy workouts that can help you achieve a model body:

Squats: Squats are a great exercise for toning your legs and glutes. To perform a squat, stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and lower your body by bending your knees and pushing your hips back. Keep your back straight and your knees behind your toes. Return to the starting position and repeat. Start with a few sets of 10-12 reps and increase the number of reps as you progress.

Push-Ups: Push-ups are a classic exercise that can help you tone your chest, shoulders, and triceps. To perform a push-up, start in a plank position with your hands shoulder-width apart. Lower your body until your chest touches the ground, and then push yourself back up to the starting position. Start with a few sets of 10-12 reps and increase the number of reps as you progress.

Plank: Planks are a great exercise for strengthening your core. To perform a plank, start in a push-up position, but instead of lowering yourself down, hold your body in a straight line from your head to your heels. Keep your abs tight and your back straight. Hold the position for as long as you can and then release. Start with 30-second holds and increase the time as you progress.

Lunges: Lunges are another great exercise for toning your legs and glutes. To perform a lunge, start with one foot in front of the other and bend both knees until your back knee almost touches the ground. Keep your front knee behind your toes and your back straight. Return to the starting position and repeat with the other leg. Start with a few sets of 10-12 reps and increase the number of reps as you progress.

Bicycle Crunches: Bicycle crunches are a great exercise for toning your abs. To perform a bicycle crunch, lie on your back with your hands behind your head and your legs in the air. Alternate bringing your left elbow to your right knee and your right elbow to your left knee in a cycling motion. Keep your abs tight and your back on the ground. Start with a few sets of 10-12 reps and increase the number of reps as you progress.

Remember to always warm up before exercising and to cool down afterwards. You should also consult with a doctor before starting any new workout routine. With these exercises and a healthy diet, you can achieve a model body in no time!

5 Easy Workouts for a Model Body

The morning is a sacred time, often setting the tone for the rest of the day. How we spend those early hours can significantly impact our productivity, mood, and overall success. However, not all morning routines are created equal. People have different personalities, and what works for one might not work for another. In this article, we will explore 8 morning routines tailored to different personalities, offering actionable steps and estimated timeframes to help you start your day right.


- Wake up at 5:00 AM
- Meditate for 10 minutes
- Exercise for 30 minutes
- Plan the day for 15 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour

:
- Wake up at 6:30 AM
- Journal for 20 minutes
- Read or watch inspiring content for 15 minutes
- Practice a creative activity for 30 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour 5 minutes

:
- Wake up at 7:00 AM
- Check emails and updates for 20 minutes
- Learn a new tech skill for 30 minutes
- Quick workout or stretch for 10 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour

4. The Health Enthusiast's Wellness Wake-Up:


- Wake up at 6:00 AM
- Prepare a healthy breakfast for 20 minutes
- Yoga or mindfulness meditation for 20 minutes
- Plan meals and fitness for the day for 15 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour


- Wake up at 7:30 AM
- Quick shower and dress for 10 minutes
- Reflect on goals and intentions for 20 minutes
- Sip on a cup of herbal tea for 15 minutes
- Estimated time: 45 minutes

6. The Social Butterfly's Connection Catalyst:


- Wake up at 6:30 AM
- Send gratitude messages to friends and family for 15 minutes
- Plan social activities for the day for 15 minutes
- Quick morning call or video chat with a loved one for 20 minutes
- Estimated time: 50 minutes


- Wake up at 7:00 AM
- Review class notes or study for 30 minutes
- Eat a nutritious breakfast for 15 minutes
- Plan study schedule for the day for 15 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour

- Wake up at 5:30 AM
- Go for a peaceful morning walk or hike for 45 minutes
- Practice deep breathing in nature for 15 minutes
- Enjoy a healthy breakfast outdoors for 20 minutes
- Estimated time: 1 hour 20 minutes

Incorporating the right morning routine for your personality type can make a world of difference in how you approach each day. Whether you're an early bird, a creative soul, a tech enthusiast, or any of the unique personalities mentioned, there's a routine that suits you. So, take a moment to reflect on who you are and what you want to achieve, and start your day with intention and purpose.

As you embark on this journey of crafting your ideal morning routine, remember this: "Every morning brings new potential, but if you dwell on the misfortunes of the day before, you tend to overlook tremendous opportunities." – Harvey Mackay

What morning routine will you choose to unlock your full potential and set your day up for success?

8 Morning Routines for Different Personalities to Set Your Day Up for Success

Animals compete. They piss on each other’s territory and raid each other’s nests.

We humans can do this too, if we so choose. In fact, we do it a lot.

Did you know that the average person spends over 

Now, how many of those hours are spent competing with others for a better position, a higher salary, or even just job security?

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.”

But here’s the million-dollar question: Are you doing great work or are you simply running in circles in the endless maze we call the “rat race”?

The term “rat race” has been ingrained in our minds. It evokes an image of frenzied rodents racing through a labyrinth, competing for a single piece of cheese. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?

We often forget that we’re running in circles.

The startling reality is that while you’re competing for a piece of the pie, someone else is writing the recipe. And that person is not trapped in the race; they’re setting the terms of it.

So why compete for pieces of the pie when you can be the one to bake it?

Now that we’ve shattered this illusion, it’s time to take a deep dive into why you should focus on creating value, rather than competing for it.

Are you ready to break free and take control? 

“Imagination is more important than knowledge.”

Let that simmer for a moment. Knowledge enables you to understand the world as it is, but imagination allows you to create a world as it could be.

Are you leveraging your imagination, or are you locked in a ruthless competition that only saps your creative energy?

Often, we think of our careers as a battleground. A place where only the fittest survive. We adopt a zero-sum game mentality: for me to win, someone else has to lose.

But what if the real power lies not in outdoing someone else, but in outdoing your past self? Tony Robbins emphasizes,

“The only limit to your impact is your imagination and commitment.”

That impact won’t come from outcompeting your colleagues for a tiny slice of the market. It’ll come from creating new markets, new opportunities, and new avenues for value.

Here’s a quick actionable rundown for you —

 — Track where you’re spending your hours. Are you networking solely to get ahead of someone else? Are you learning to beat your ‘competition’? Or are you investing in yourself to create something new?

 — What are you naturally good at? What energizes you? Use these unique traits as the cornerstone of your creation.

 — Stop viewing success as a limited commodity. When you create, you add to the pie, making it bigger for everyone.

 — Creation is about innovation, and innovation comes from taking risks, failing, and learning. Don’t be afraid to launch that prototype, write that draft, or pitch that idea.

Isn’t creation riskier than competition?

” Most people think competing in an established field is safer than venturing into the unknown.

But consider this — when you compete, you’re at the mercy of market dynamics, many of which you can’t control.

So, is it really riskier, or is it just unfamiliar territory that we’ve been conditioned to fear?

Are you ready to stop being a pawn in someone else’s game and start setting up your own board?